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Smoking habit in children

How To Find Out Whether Your Kid Is Smoking Or Not

It is a worry most parents carry in their mind when they have growing adolescents’ kids at home. We are talking about smoking habits of the younger generation. Kids can develop smoking habit out of curiosity, peer pressure or other reasons. Parents may suspect or become aware that their child is smoking through various signs and changes in behavior. It is essential to approach situation with sensitivity, open communication, and a non-judgmental attitude.

Some of the common signs that may indicate that your child is smoking:

  • Unusual odors: The smell of tobacco smoke can linger on clothing, hair, and breath. Parents may notice a persistent smell of smoke on their child’s belongings or in their room.
  • Physical signs: Smoking can lead to physical changes, such as yellowing teeth and fingers, as well as a persistent cough or throat irritation.
  • Changes in behavior: Keep an eye out for behavioral changes, such as increased secrecy, withdrawal from family activities, or spending more time away from home with a new group of friends.
  • Mood changes: Smoking may lead to mood swings or increased irritability. Some children may use smoking to cope with stress or emotional issues.
  • Frequent use of breath mints or gum: A child who is smoking may use breath mints or gum to mask the smell of tobacco.
  • Disappearing lighters or ashtrays: If parents find lighters, matches, or ashtrays in their child’s possession or room, it may indicate smoking.
  • Empty cigarette packs or wrappers: Discovering empty cigarette packs or wrappers can be a clear sign of smoking.
  • Dropping grades or academic issues: Smoking can affect a child’s concentration and overall well-being, potentially leading to academic problems.
  • Changes in friendship: You might see your child hanging out with new friends who are from a different age group or much elder. Many kids won’t talk about new friends! Sometimes new friendships with peers who smoke may be an indication that a child is smoking or experimenting with smoking.
  • Evidence of smoking materials: Parents may find cigarette butts, rolling papers, or other smoking paraphernalia in their child’s belongings.

If parents suspect that their child is smoking, it’s important to approach the situation calmly and with empathy. Here are some steps to consider:

  • Initiate a conversation: Find a suitable time to talk to your child privately and express your concerns. Use “I” statements to avoid sounding accusatory. For example, say, “I have been noticing some changes, and Iam concerned about your health.”
  • Listen actively: Allow your child to share their perspective and feelings without interrupting or passing judgment.
  • Ask open ended questions: Encourage open dialogue by asking questions that require more than a yes or no answer. For example, ask, “Can you tell me what’s been going on lately?”
  • Educate: Provide information about the risks and consequences of smoking, including health effects, addiction, and legal consequences for underage smoking.
  • Offer support: Let your child know that you are there to support them in making healthy choices. Discuss ways to quit smoking if they have already started.
  • Set clear expectations: Communicate your family’s rules and expectations regarding smoking and its consequences.
  • Seek professional help: If you suspect that your child is struggling with nicotine addiction, consider seeking guidance from a healthcare professional or counselor who specializes in addiction.

Remember that approaching the situation with empathy and understanding can help maintain a healthy parent-child relationship and it increases the likelihood of a positive outcome.

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Author: Sumana Rao | Posted on: October 3, 2023
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Ingredients:

1.       Ginger essential oil – 10 drops

2.       Coconut oil -20 ml (carrier oil)

 

Preparation and application:

1.       Mix ginger oil with coconut oil

2.       Transfer to a bottle

3.       Before applying, warm the oil and apply on affected area. Massage the portion.

4.       This oil is good for muscle ache and joint pain

 

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Author: Sumana Rao | Posted on: September 25, 2023
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Ingredients:

1.       Rosemary essential oil – 5 drops

2.       Eucalyptus essential oil – 8 droops

3.       Carrier oil like coconut, olive or sesame oil – 25 ml

 

Preparation steps:

1.       Blend all the above mentioned oils well

2.       Transfer blended oil to dark colored bottle

3.       When in need, take few drops, apply on pain area and massage.

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1.       Clove essential oil – few drops

2.       Carrier oil  like coconut or sesame oil

 

Preparation and application:

1.       Mix couple of drops of clove oil with a tsp of coconut oil or sesame oil

2.       Apply the oil where it hurts.

3.       This oil is good for tooth pain.

4.       You can also add clove oil to warm water and gargle.

5.       Apply clove oil mixed with sesame oil for joint pain, soreness, muscle pain

 

Clove oil with peppermint oil: These two combination of oils (in equal amount with career oil like coconut oil) significantly reduces pain. Topical application of the oil mix, followed by proper massaging reduces pain.

 

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1.       Eucalyptus leaves – 15

2.       Olive oil or sesame oil – 2 cups

 

Preparation steps:

1.       Heat oil on medium flame. ,Once the oil heats up, reduce the flame.

2.       Cut and add eucalyptus leaves to oil and continue heating oil for next couple of hours on low flame.

3.       Turn off the heat. Allow oil to cool

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5.       Use this oil to get relief from not only joint pain, also to get relief from headache. Add few drops to boiling water and inhale  for asthma, cough, respiratory discomfort.

 

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1.       Oil – coconut, mustard, sesame or olive oil 100 ml

2.       Cayenne pepper – 1 Tbsp. (use pure cayenne pepper powder. There should not be added color)

 

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1.       Heat oil on medium heat

2.       Add cayenne pepper powder, continue heating oil on low heat

3.       After 15-20 minutes turn off the heat.

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5.       Apply the oil whenever you need to get relief from pain. This is one of the best remedies to get rid of joint pain.

 

 

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1.       Garlic cloves – 4-5

2.       Mustard oil – 30 ml

 

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1.       Heat mustard oil on medium heat

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4.       Apply and massage on areas including joint pain, muscle pain areas to get relief.

 

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